Have you ever dated someone who treats you like trash? Always holds money over your head? Says you owe him this and this and that and that when really it should just be paid for by him out of love? Ever been with a man who wont sleep with you unless you pay off all your "debt" and "loans." Sounds more like you're dating BMO or TD. My mother, as crazy and annoying as she may be, is married to a COMPLETE MONEY LOVING SELFISH BASTARD. He is constantly jotting down what she's spent with his debit card, whether it be a present for friends/family, or just a little something for herself or their house. He is CONSTANTLY making a mental note of everything she owes him back. What really pains me, is that I live in their home... I am 18, if you haven't already guessed, I pay room and board, a meer $150 a month... but I am paying to live there, use their appliances, shower, and food. I am also paying to live in my bedroom, and as a tenant, I believe I have the right to make a noise complaint.. ha ha. Anways, to get back on track... men who marry women knowing they're not as successful, and can't bring much to the table (financially) should NEVER complain and bitch about how their woman is never bringing anything into the home. Men, if you're dissatisfied with your woman's bank account.... NO ONE SAID YOU HAD TO MARRY HER. What pisses me off the most is how they expect so much when they found their woman struggling to pay the bills. Don't marry her if you're not willing to hold her up and take care of your woman. Men are supposed to be the bread winners (except for some cases, ie. women who are strong willed) and women are supposed to be the one's who keep their house tidy & make meals and raise children.. now I know this is 2014, and I am sounding a bit out dated, but I believe if you marry a woman, you shouldn't expect to split every bill, every meal out and every credit card notice. In some cases, like families who have two working parents because they have to it makes sense, but my mother's husband (he is not my father, never helped in the creation of yours truly) is a lawyer. A very high-end and uptight lawyer. Like all lawyer's (ive met anyways) he is a liar, manipulator and scammer. When I was 5 my parents split up and we moved to a run-down townhouse... we barely had two nickles to rub together, my mother was under so much pressure and working 24/7... then she met her present husband, they dated (very briefly) and he promised her and my brother the world. 4 trips a year to see my dad and other siblings, trips to Disneyland and other amazing places and the best promise he made, was for my mother to never have to work again. She could stay at home and cook and clean and watch me and my brother. He broke all those promises. I see my family once a year for 3 weeks, I barely know my own father, or up until now. My point being men who marry women and promise them all these things then change their mind after the wedding and become a complete nightmare to live with or even spend time with aren't men at all... they're a shell of a man. My advice to women who are dating men like this, haven't tied the knot yet... GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN. Women who are too late, and already married to this monster, file for divorce... put up a good fight to get some of what he has but if you can't, like my mother's case.. then just get the divorce. It is far better to be alone, poor but happy than to be rich, alone and miserable. There is nothing good that can come from misery and pain. Dedicated to my mom... I hope you make the tough decision.
-RG
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