So ladies and gents, it seems I keep coming back for more. Well, this post is going to be a doozie. Men (who aren't really men at all, but cowardly little boys) who act like women part one. A friend of mine, who shall ALWAYS remain nameless is going through a tough break. Her boyfriends birthday was New Years Eve and he desperately wanted his woman by his side... but being in high school, this young lady needed parental consent. When she asked for a night with her boyfriend and his family she was wrongly denied. Now, as her boyfriend should have looked beyond his own want and need, and understand that she could not attend his party. In fact, she spent the night drowning her sorrows in booze, alone, at home. He spent the night ignoring her calls, texts and tweets. He was bitter and angry. If a man were in this situation (which he wouldn't be, but if he was) he would honor her parents decision and understand whole heartedly. But we're not dealing with a man here... we're dealing with a child. This coward has been dodging his girlfriends texts and blatantly tweeting about his sorrows and how he "has no one to text." This is a woman. Women hold grudges, no offence to any female readers. We are more inclined to hold grudges than men. My advice to my lovely friend, and any women who are being treated like shit by a guy who cannot seem to put on his big boy pants and grow a pair. Don't let him WALK ALL OVER YOU. You women are far better than any man, let alone some childish little boy. Turn the phone off and ignore his childish ass. Spend the day with friends and family... de-stress from this toxic person and allow yourself to regain strength and courage. The next day call him and tell him you need to talk. When you meet up and talk, DON'T BACK DOWN. Of course apologize for being unable to attend whatever shindig he invited you to, but needless to say, you shouldn't be punished. He needs to grow the fuck up (excuse my language) and GET OVER IT. Hope this helps girl. Love you.
-RG
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